One thing I’ve found about enjoying single life is that until the right one comes around we’re quite ‘choosie.’

Yes, being single long enough makes the heart long for finding a true a love; but it’s that many of us won’t settle for less.

Men staying single today are in record numbers, while single women seem cautious. But we still want that right individual to enter our life.

Men have their secrets. The women like to please men and be wanted and loved.

Our planet is teeming with a random lotto of people who don’t know who they can trust.

Likewise, unquestionably though, searching for true love can be filled with curiosity as well as doubt.

Love is supposed to be a stunning feeling with great deals of pleased ideas. I mean, emanating from the whole plan of being in love.

So why is discovering real love considered a difficult obstacle?

 

Is finding love really so difficult though?

Or do we simply make it hard?

Discovering love is not hard, but sometimes it takes a very long time. So if you are single now, and I assume that you are, then you are most likely be single for awhile.

I like this lesson from the Course in Miracles:

• It’s not what is available or unavailable that determines your level of success and happiness; it’s what you convince yourself is true. 

Here are some benefits of enjoying single life: 

You are independent. When you want, generally you can do what you desire. You do not need to wait, you don’t have to ask, you can just go.

You have more time. So when you’re enjoying single life; you do not need to sit around doing nothing.

Wish to go to the health club? Want to join the hiking club? Play an instrument? How about watch your preferred video for 10th time?

Wish to take a course? Discover a new hobby? Who’s stopping you?

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It’s nice when you you don’t need to handle another’s individual habits. You can sleep without listening to someone’s snoring and hog all the blankets all the time and nobody cares.

You do not have to pick up after anyone however yourself. If you don’t desire to, and you do not even have to choose up after yourself.

Offer your perseverance a well-deserved break.

You can be spontaneous while enjoying single life. 

Be bold while enjoying single life.

Do what you want when you want to and who cares if you do not get to supper until midnight?

Do something uncommon, without needing to get permission first or calling ahead. This is freedom!

You can concentrate on your career. You can carry your energy into your work. Without a relationship, you have a lot more time.

Put in those extra hours and impress your manager, or handle brand-new jobs.

You are your own employer. Relationships require compromise and you do not constantly get your own method.

Both individuals in a relationship need to provide something up for the greater good of the relationship.

The relationship filled with love needs continued bonding to survive.

Do what you want and treat yourself more. Selfishness when enjoying single life is good for the soul (in small dosages).

Do not tension! That unique someone is out there and you can and will discover them. It just takes some time.

In the meantime, take pleasure in being single.

I think that if you can’t be delighted being single, you will never be pleased with your soulmate! There are lots of poor people who are happy and lots that are unhappy.

(When you need help staying optimistic): I find it easy to control my thoughts where manifesting my goals seems effortless and that’s why maintaining a positive state of mind is easy for me:

You thought it! They would most likely enjoy for a short time, but it wouldn’t last and ultimately they would be simply as dissatisfied as they were.

Ever question why that is?

Being happy and enjoying single life comes from within you not outside.

OK, you are single– enjoy yourself and that special person will come along before you know it!

Essentially you can do what you want when you want while enjoying single life .

As I’d said above but in a different way, want to go to gym or the park? Desire to take a course?

And you don’t even have to gather up after yourself if you don’t desire to.

Final Thought on Being Single and Happy:

Is enjoying single life so difficult while you hope for the love of your life to appear?

Let’s keep in mind to be happy and successful till you find your true love.

Do what you desire when you want to and who cares if you don’t get to dinner till later at night?

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To success in life and love,

James Nussbaumer

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