It is so important to love who you are and overcome those thoughts of “not being good enough” to have high charisma?

After my last writing session, I realized some of you might be thinking you’re not good enough.

I mean, struggling to have even an ounce of charisma in your lives.

All our lives we are constantly told we’re not good enough for certain things. It feels as if the whole world is against us and everyone is just thumbing us down.

We can’t be blamed for feeling like we’re not good enough to have what we want.

Now…love who you are if you think you’re not good enough.

Yes, and to have the kind of charisma which will make EVERYTHING in life just line up for you?

Think again.

Keep in mind this valuable lesson from A Course in Miracles:

• What shares the purpose of the Universe shares the purpose of its Creator. Try then to begin to learn to look on all things with love, appreciation and open-mindedness.

I’ve been in business long enough to know the one golden rule of people, in general. And this is:

“Nobody gives a crap how good you are, as long as you’re fun and interesting to work with”.

Initially, this seemed like total nonsense when I got started.

Yes, you need to be “good” at what you do… but not at a “guru master level”. You see…

One of my mentors would always beat it into my head to love who you are. Then you will be genuinely likable person to get people to enjoy working with me and do me favors.

Makes sense when you really think about it.

Nobody wants to work with a snobby SOB.

Until I understood this golden rule, I kept trying to “force” myself to be better at what I do.

(I also suggest a related article here on: If you begin discovering who you are it may stunningly uncover your purpose in life. Here’s how: 

Hoping my nonstop efforts would open the doors I was so desperate to open.

And then one day, I just said “screw it”… Of course then decided to just be the REAL me and actually have some fun.

And lo behold… everything just changed.

My clients LOVED working with me, even if there were better… more experienced people they could work with.

When I changed my attitude and unleashed my inner charismatic self people just opened up to me.

Now, it was NEVER to the level of the friend I mentioned in a recent article a few days ago. But it WAS just enough to make me understand the importance of having a good influence.

How can you do this?

Just go see this presentation below.

As a result, a powerful sense of passion in your life which practically attracts respect and success.

Imagine being so charismatic your lover can’t help but feel LUCKY to be with you… and eyes you as if you’re the incredible catch they got.

Imagine having so much respect from your kids they look up to you as a legend and are hung on your every word.

Imagine a life where opportunities just appear out of thin air for you. Promotions, work opportunities… partnerships…

And all by people truly willing to work with you because THEY GENUINELY LOVE WHO YOU ARE.

Likewise, cannot stand the idea of NOT working with you.

Trust me… consider the looks of envy on your friend’s faces as you climb the corporate ladder. Sure, I mean without any smelly hogwash, or sneak in the door snake oil. 

The look of awe in your lover’s eyes when you come back from work each day.

Yes and it’s like they’re falling in love with you for the first time all over again would be worth it.

I tell you this, right now… this is not a stretch of the imagination by any means.

This is all very much possible. Right now in fact.

I dare say if you’re willing…

You could have this power by next week, (or tomorrow if you’re that flexible in your thinking).

And discover the hidden charisma inside you waiting to be released.

(Here’s another related article I recommend: How to be true to who you are so you may let go of feeling worthless and depressed:) 

All my best,

James Nussbaumer

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