Do You Have a Violent and Abusive Sweetheart?

Data shows that many, many teenagers has experienced violence in a dating relationship.

Most cases include one partner trying to maintain power and control over the other through some type of abuse.

A lot of victims of Dating violence are girls who are also at higher risk for severe injury.

Females ages 16 to 24 experience the highest per capita rates of intimate violence– nearly 1 out of 50 females.(Bureau of Justice Special Report: Intimate Partner Violence, May 2001).

Teen dating violence often is concealed due to the fact that teenagers are inexperienced, desire independence from their parents. and they are pressed by peers to start dating at an early age.

Some teen boys may think they can “control” you or they believe they will lose “respect” if they are supportive and mindful toward their sweethearts.

— Are you at fault for his or her abuse on you?

You might think you are the one who is triggering the problem. You may believe that his jealousy and abusiveness implies he actually enjoys you so much he can’t control himself.

You might believe since you have pals that are also being abused that this is regular or you might think you can alter him.

You would be wrong on any of those data and counts prove that beyond a shadow of a doubt.

If your partner is abusive now, he will not improve, he will become worse up until one day he hurts you actually bad or perhaps kills you.

Abuse in Relationships is Truly Serious

Ask yourself these questions; If you answer yes to several of the following questions about the kid you are dating then you remain in risk of having a severe issue. If several of these are yes, get a brand-new boyfriend.

— Is he or she using alcohol or drugs?

Does he have severe state of mind swings? Happy one minute and mad the next?

Is he exceptionally envious? Does he enter battles with other boys who pay you attention?

Does he utilize force during an argument or during intimacy?

Does he blame others or make reasons about his issues?

Is he verbally abusive to you? (shouting all the time, putting you down, calling you stupid, threatening you?).

Does he treat his mom with disrespect or is he mean to her? Do former sweethearts say he abused them?

Does he attempt to manage you or tell you what to do, who you can see, where you can go all the time?

Does he attempt to keep you far from your family or try to make you based on him, informing you that he understands what is best for you and your family is always incorrect?

I duplicate if even 2 of those things is true, you require to break it off and get as far away from him as possible, due to the fact that these are all indications of someone who abuses or will abuse women.

— Most victims of Dating violence are young females who are likewise at greater danger for major injury.

Ladies ages 16 to 24 experience the greatest per capita rates of intimate violence– nearly 1 out of 50 ladies.( Bureau of Justice Special Report: Intimate Partner Violence, May 2001).

Always remember that a healthy love relationship is what you want, therefore you will achieve one day the love of your life.

You would be incorrect on any of those data and counts prove that beyond a shadow of a doubt.

If your boyfriend or girfriend is abusive now, he/she will not get better. She or he will get worse till one day harms you truly bad or even eliminates you.

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