A dream in life for so many great people is to find love and happiness with someone special, but many of us are concerned about signs of a healthy relationship. Certainly for many, seeing true love signs that are real might seem easier than it actually is.
That said, even if you have a marriage or love relationship needing healing, I want to take your mind through some metaphysical thinking.
Let’s try to understand signs of a healthy relationship and what truly brings people together, and where you may know how to spot true love signs.
Am I in a healthy relationship is something we’ve most likely asked before. But what are signs of a healthy relationship?
In our ego-based dream of life we make special relationships that have a special place outside of our divine Reality. They are special because we “made” them, as though to make a reality of them.
This is the means by which we try to make all of our dreams come true.
Am I in a Healthy Relationship?
From this special thought of a special relationship, we don’t awaken to love.
These special relationships are our determination to keep our hold on the unreal, and to prevent ourselves from truly awakening to the naked truth behind the projection screen we’ve scripted and projected of life in this world.
We see more value in sleeping than in waking, so we hide from reality and this may keep us from seeing signs of a healthy relationship.
However, there are special relationships in which the holiness in each other seems to unite and leads us from our sleep.
This becomes a “holy relationship” and is real, and is necessary to discover and bring forward true peace and joy.
Making the Relationship Shift in Mind
The Holy Spirit—your inner divine Self and Guide, who certainly has the wisdom of our dreams—from our simple daydreams and imaginings to the complicated or restless dreams as we sleep—uses all of them as means for awakening from the dream of life in this world, which humanity dreams.
The Holy Spirit is constantly undoing the errors, and is leading us to happy dreams.
A Course in Miracles teaches us that, “Happy dreams are a necessary step toward no longer fearing God.”
The fear must be released in order to awaken wholly to love, and this step cannot be achieved through unhappy dreams. Undoing the fear is when and how miracles appear in your life!
This is the Holy Spirit’s task before dreams can disappear.
The dream of separation that humanity dreams, is no different, and when it finally fades away we will have awakened at Home to Love, where we’ve always been.
A Course in Miracles states, “The special relationship has the most imposing and deceptive frame of all the defenses the ego uses.”
Gifts of the Holy Spirit
But we must first release ourselves from the fear of God as a whole before we may awaken as a whole. This is exactly what I mean by gifts of the Holy Spirit, where His is using the special relationship.
He is sorting out and sorting through to find where holiness might unite, and is often in how we learn to communicate with one another.
In some cases a holy relationship will result, either directly or indirectly, and in some cases will not.
A Course in Miracles further states, “The holy relationship is the expression of the Holy Spirit…and a major step toward the perception of the real world.”
He does not destroy nor take a special relationship away from us, but He does use each one differently, as a help in making His purpose real to you. He wants you to answer to your true calling!
As the special relationship’s unholy aspect keeps it a thing apart or separate, its holiness aspect hidden within it will gradually come forward and become an offering to everyone.
The Holy Spirit proceeds with your special relationships while shifting them to holy relationships, those you will share with all you encounter.
This is why we have been returning throughout my other articles to the importance of love bringing forward joy. It’s about igniting the real you!
When we extend, we bring love/joy forward in the mind.
Your joy keeps you in a happy dream.
True Love Signs
Your blessings of right-mindedness continually extend.
Don’t think the Holy Spirit has forgotten anyone in the purpose He has given us.
And don’t think He has forgotten you, to whom He gave the gift. He uses everyone as a means for the awakening of everyone.
He has set His goal on awakening all of us through each other. So give all of your special relationships to His care.
How do you know which relationships are special and which ones are holy?
That’s quite easy.
Where holiness abides, it does not feel lacking. All of this is exactly the thought process I decided to institute upon any encounter I have throughout any given day.
I want to call it a holy encounter!
(By the way, I also suggest this related article about how to improve your self-confidence and be open to what life has to offer you.)
To seeing signs of a healthy relationship,
James Nussbaumer
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