Fear of Not Being Accepted Healed by Uncovering Strength and Courage

For me at one time of my life the fear of not being accepted was a fear of my material world ending.

Prior to this crash, like others, too, have, strength and courage could not be found. But here it may for you just by reviewing this.

This was so strong I believed that life was no longer where I belonged and overcoming fear of failure was haunting me.

I had targeted all of my energy and perseverance on efforts to please the world so I might be accepted as a leader.

All of this strain was due to my attempt to give the world what I thought it demanded.

This increased my fear of not being accepted.

My goal is to at least help a few individuals find their true Light.

Or a purpose and passion that can bring them out of darkness, so they can see for themselves that the ego’s hold on them is not real.

Keep in mind the Course in Miracles teaches: 

  • “You are entitled to miracles because of what you are. You will receive miracles because of what God is. And you will offer miracles because you are one with God.” 

I am feeling true strength as my former unreal self is behind me.

The ego in each of us individually does not like this type of growth. As well, at first you may feel awkward, though headed in a truthful direction.

(This other related article for direction in life may help, too: how to begin overcoming fear of success with positive self-talk exercises:) 

We have learned to feel separate from everything, including God; who additionally we have learned to fear.

The ego sees everything as a separate entity, including in our love relationships.

It will fight to the bitter end to defend its ideas and its separateness when it feels threatened. But it will work diligently to be accepted.

My material dark thoughts had led me to believe that my daughters would be better off with me dead.

I mean, as all I felt I was worth was a sizable life insurance policy. It was mature enough to cover suicide.

The fear of my material world ending was so strong I believed that life was no longer where I belonged.

Prior to this crash, I had targeted all of my energy and perseverance on efforts to please the world.

Yes, to try to end the fear of not being accepted.

But I eventually discovered I was accepted as a leader.

All of this unnecessary strain was due to my attempt to give the world what I thought it demanded.

It really demanded nothing of me, other than, being true to myself.

(Here’s a more detailed related article on: dealing with fear of not being accepted and fear of failure while healing panic and anxiety:) 

To knowing where you belong,

James Nussbaumer

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