Is my Relationship Healthy? – Deciding to Stay in a Relationship for a Better Marriage

You have much to be thankful for if your hubby is faithful and never needing to wonder, is my relationship healthy. Faithful spouses are surely in demand. While 3 out of 4 spouses assume their partners are devoted, just 1 spouse in 4 can truthfully make that claim.

In accordance with recent research data, 3 of 4 men cheat on their better halves. And, 2/3 of those partners (approximately 26 million females) have no idea their hubbies are having an affair – despite the existence of numerous indications.

A Rude Awakening to, Is my Relationship Healthy?:

Every year countless wives who believed they had devoted partners, are surprised when their spouses request a divorce or just move in with another lady.

Others are stunned in a questioning relationship to find empty bank accounts that household funds were used to fund an adulterous affair.

Still others are astonished to find out that they’ve contracted a sexually transferred illness, and don’t know where to turn for good relationship advice.

Why the Wife usually seems to be the Last to Know

Why is it that even in a so-called better marriage the partner is constantly the last to understand that the marriage is on the rocks?

Could all these females be in denial when they think, is my relationship healthy?

How could a partner not have known her other half is having an affair? If a wife has no inkling to suspect her spouse it’s easy to miss out on or misinterpret the caution signs.

(Here’s more about when you decide on leaving a relationship for good and pain of rejection and dealing with guilt.) 

Being Truly Thankful when you can honestly answer to, is my relationship healthy?

Not every family man is a cheating spouse, though the overwhelming majority of them are.

There are still quite a good many devoted men around where there’s need for a questioning relationship.

You have a lot to be happy for if you’re wed to one.

The Course in Miracles states, “The search for truth is but the honest searching out of everything that interferes with truth.”

You can be happy that your marital relationship and household are undamaged.  You can be grateful you don’t have to agonize over the pondering of, is my relationship healthy?

Or, a choice of whether to leave your husband or deciding to stay in a relationship and aim to get your marriage back on track.

You can be grateful the years you’ve invested in your marital relationship have not been in vain. Discuss this with one another and bring forth what you both want from the marriage.

After all, we seem to always get what we truly want.

The Course in Miracles further teaches, “Our emphasis has been on bringing what is undesirable to the desirable; what you do not want to what you do want.”

When you can bring to each other only what you do want and let go of what you do not want, you can be glad you don’t have the devastation and psychological trauma that infidelity in the marriage brings.

Make Sure you’re Not an Unsuspecting Wife

Given the increasing rate of adultery, you owe it to yourself and your marital relationship to make sure you’re not one of those 26 million unsuspecting spouses.

How can you be sure when you answer to, is my relationship healthy?  

(Here’s more on relationship advice for couples and tips to help heal the heart.) 

The Marriage May Depend on being Open to Warning Signs

The future of your marital relationship may one day depend upon your capability to find the warning signs of adultery.

If you identify the telltale signs in time, there are many things you can do to conserve your marriage.

However if your marriage turns out to be unsalvageable, you can still take actions to safeguard yourself lawfully, economically and emotionally.

You can also prepare yourself psychologically and mentally for the destruction that lies ahead.

However the initial step in solving a problem is being aware the problem exists. If a spouse has no idea her partner is cheating, by the time she learns, it might be far too late.

Appreciation is Growth

If your husband is faithful and you are confident when you ask yourself, is my relationship healthy, be truly thankful and continue growing together.

If you’re not sure, appreciate that you somehow found this article.

That said, keep in mind that every year countless females cannot be certain when they wonder, is my relationship healthy?

Many who believe they have faithful husbands are surprised when their husbands ask for a divorce or simply move in with another lady.

If your hubby is faithful, that’s great, be appreciative of the wonderful man you are spending your life with.

(Please note, I also suggest this related article on when a woman sees signs he’s not in love in anymore and healing the broken relationship.)  

To better marriage,

James Nussbaumer

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